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• ホリデー
• 2022/10/30 (Sun) 14:22
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Gift exchange pressure
It's hard to give back when you get something expensive 😮💨.

• ゲゲゲ
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 10:27
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If you are in the market and have a cart full of
purchases and someone comes up behind you in the checkout line with a drink and a $5 bill in their hand, do you say after them ？ or do you say yes when they ask if they can go first ？ or do you say no ？? Do you say no because it's your turn ？ or do you say no because it's your turn ?

• もち
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 10:38
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I'll let you go
and if you let me go
you'll be happy.

When you don't want to

When you're upset
I can't say that I'm not.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 11:08
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The other day at a Japanese-affiliated market, after an elderly person had finished shopping, he asked for a drink. I asked him if I could go ahead and use his card for something that cost less than $2. He looked at me with a sour look on his face and said it was his turn to buy.
I have never had such an experience in this market, and this was the first time in a Japanese-affiliated market. I also tell them to go ahead if there is someone behind me who wants to buy 1 or 2 items. I felt again that Japanese men are like that nowadays.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 11:15
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Please refrain from commenting afterwards about how old people who want a drink are wrong.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 11:47
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If you have one drink and a $5 bill in your hand, you can give it away.
Since you have a cart full, the person in front of you will probably be done while you are getting it out.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 11:53
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Ototto, yes, that's right.
But that guy in his 30s or so
turned me down, so I had to goof off.

• ワクチン義務化
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 12:53
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I think that person was shy ？.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん。
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 13:14
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That's why there are self-checkout machines
and that's why your father thought you should go to a self-checkout machine
you get old and you don't know how selfish you are.

• 想像
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 14:09
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That man could have been in a hurry, too.
He waited in a long line and finally got his turn, and he had an old man waiting in his car.
He might have been a kind young man who came from far away to buy in bulk for his grandfather who likes Japanese-style ramen.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 14:15
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↑
So, $ I don't want to use my card
for 1.90➕50 cents and will pay with cash. Self checkout at American markets accept cash, but Japanese markets are card only.
If you have cash, who wants to use a card for $ 2 ？

• 名無しの権田
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 14:57
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Oh, stupid, I'll say go ahead without being told, it takes less than 5 minutes in terms of time
It's like when you drive a car and you have to separate the people who let you in from the people who are mean to you.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:03
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↑
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• Reila 911
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:11
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I like to complicate the story, don't you?

• 何言ってんだか。。
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:15
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What's an extra 50 cents ？
debit card, not credit card ？
I'll use my credit card for $2

I want to get in front of someone for 50 cents ？ selfish ～ then pay him 50 cents Pay him.

• おっさん
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:17
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#18
tadpole

you wouldn't if it was the other way around （ lol ）

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:18
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Why are cash registers in Japanese markets not allowed to use cash? ？
1. Cash replenishment is troublesome.
2. Lease cost is high for cash machines.
2. Lease cost is too expensive for cash-optimized machines.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:20
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#21
I do and I do. How about you?

• おっさん
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:21
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Even many supermarkets in the US don't accept cash
I'm not 100% sure they'll turn up counterfeit money ？.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:23
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+5 cents was.
$ 1. $ Someone uses the card for 2.

• おっさん
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:25
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23

Don't do it except for the elderly and disabled Don't spoil it

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:28
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Some private stores ask for
$ 5 or more for card ？ If you use your card for 1 or 2 dollars, the store is not in the negative there are bank charges and so on.

• お年寄り
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:33
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I know the word cashless ？ （ lol ）
and I know no business wants to handle cash now ？

• 🛒
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 15:42
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What do you guys think of this ？

You are second in line at the supermarket checkout line. Two people are about to go to the checkout with a few items in their hands. Then you notice that someone else is already waiting, and you know you shouldn't. But the first person says, "No. But the first person said, "No, that's okay, go ahead," and I let him go. The first person had a cart full of groceries. The people who interrupted him went ahead of him, either on purpose or because they didn't see if there was a line. In the end, the people in the back were left to their own devices.

• Store
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 16:29
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Sometimes I see them. I have even been let in. But the premise is, no one is in line behind the person who lets you in, and you either let them go first, or you are behind the person who originally let you in and let them go first.
It is impolite to side enter when there are people still in line. Without the approval of the person behind you. But some elderly people push because they think they can go first. 、、、、、

• Store
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 16:42
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Tadpole, you say and do some inexplicable things here and there. If they refuse, it can't be helped. You are just complaining about it. He is the first one in line. There are more people who can't get in. They don't ask to be allowed to go first. It's funny that you complain when he refuses ！.

• ゲゲゲ
• 2022/11/01 (Tue) 18:28
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Since this is a topic asking if it's okay to complain,
you can just goof off on your own.

• ここには意地悪な日本人多過ぎ
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 00:01
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I think it's normal to have an elderly person waiting for you and then ask if you can let them go first.
When there are people waiting for you, you get impatient. I think it's better to ask them if they want to go first than to wait for a long time.
There are too many mean-spirited Japanese on the net who talk big like they are proud of their victory.

• どっちもどっちかな。
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 00:23
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I do think that person who doesn't give in is narrow-minded, but I think it makes sense that order is order. Tadpole-san is also quite nosy. If you feel bad about making an elderly person wait, I think you should pay 50 cents and go to the self-serve. You are the one who blames people who don't give up because you don't want to pay 50 cents. You are very stingy, and it is selfish of you to take it for granted that you should be allowed to go first. If I were you, I would pay 50 cents and go to the self-serve because I would be too embarrassed to ask you to let me interrupt you.

• どっちもどっちかな。
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 00:24
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I mean, another caregiver ？ lol
I don't know how stressed out I am.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 00:31
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Not 50 cents.
5 cent container fee.

• うざ子
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 01:23
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I don't always shop with such a full cart, so very rarely am I asked to go ahead.
I'm really annoyed by people with full carts even though it's an express line with less than 15 items - plating takes too long for me because I shop a lot of food stamps and such. I can't even get people who take their time on purpose knowing the line is jammed behind them.

• #34
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 01:35
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Care ？ what are you talking about ？ I have never worked in care.
As usual, all you do is gossip on your own.

I know that Mr. Tadpole is off a lot, but when I complained here
he even called me thick-skinned for not making a big deal of it, so I just wrote what I felt.

• どっちもどっちかな。
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 07:41
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>>> ↑
So, $ I don't want to use my card for 1.90➕50 cents
and will pay with cash. Self checkout at American markets accept cash, but Japanese markets are card only.
If you have cash, who wants to use a card for $ 2 ？

>> not 50 cents.
5 cent container fee.


is ？
changing what you say too much
it says 50 cents ？

• カード社会
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 08:30
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> If you have the cash, $ who wants to use the card for 2 ？

I'll use it ？ something.

• ようするに
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 08:46
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Tadpole is just a self centered person
he doesn't want to pay 50 cents and he is self centered
for thinking that he deserves to be forced to give up his seat as a matter of course to the person in line first to let him go first because people are waiting ？ lol
but he spares no time posting on here lol

This morning on Yahoo news in first class
a family asked one woman to give up her seat because they wanted 3 people in a row, and she told them to find a seat for 3 people in another available class and complained how unkind they were to the family
on social media.
Many people make reservations months in advance and choose their favorite seats
If you want to line up as a family, you can do so If there was no seat available, you should ask someone else to give it up for you

I was asked to do the same thing on a plane a long time ago, and I exchanged my seat. I gave it to him, but the person sitting behind me was taller than me and his legs seemed to hit me when I folded the seat down, so he kicked me from behind as hard as he could while I was sleeping. I told him that he should sit in business if it was too small for him, and I left his seat down without any need for it until we arrived. I was kind enough to change him, but I don't think I'll ever give him up again.

• Store
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 08:49
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#27 Think about the feelings of the people in line ahead of you before you think about the negative impact on the store. Then you should quickly get in line at the self-checkout to use your card, whether you have cash or not.
But you are free to ask. Some people might let you go ahead of them after you ask. There are a lot of people who have elderly people or children, and every time they let others go ？ most of the people behind them don't mind. I don't think it's mean 、、、、、.
I think it would be better to write it as if the man in his thirties behind you is somehow at fault.

• Store
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 08:54
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As you can see, it is the man ahead of you in line, not behind you.

• 態度
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 09:24
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I wouldn't want to give it up if someone talked about me like I deserved it

If it was a pretty girl, I would give it up

That's the reality.

• 人種
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 12:26
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Maybe they have Chinese blood in them
They don't line up.

• 🚪
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 14:25
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When you open a door and someone approaches to go through the same door, it is a manner in this country to leave the door open, but it is also a manner to say "Thank you". But sometimes people just walk through the door without saying anything ？ I don't feel annoyed by that ？ There are many Asians here.

• 通りすがりの名無し
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• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 15:39
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Reading just the words "people with Chinese blood don't line up" seemed to me to be discriminatory or
sheltering Chinese people. I think it is too
hard to read that and say it is a racial characterization. Is my reading comprehension too poor? I think it's also wrong to assume that Chinese people don't line up in the first place. When I go to 99 Ranch in Monterey Park, everyone is
waiting in line at the checkout counter. In fact, I have seen other Chinese people warning other Chinese people who come in sideways there.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 16:19
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The Asian woman is mistaken about something.
All cars have to stop at an intersection without a signal with a stop sign displayed, but
the car that stops later gets out first and it is dangerous. I look at the driver and see an Asian woman.
They mistakenly think that women have priority in America.

• 参考
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 17:55
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#55 FYI, 99 Ranch is a Taiwanese supermarket. I don't know about the clientele, but the situation between China and Taiwan is delicate, so be careful how you use your story. There was also a random shooting by pro-independence Chinese at a Taiwanese church a while ago.

• おっさん
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 20:50
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Chinese people don't stand in line
it's famous all over the world
google it, you'll find plenty of it.

• 愚痴
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 20:58
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Today, I first went to a Chinese supermarket and found 24 cans of Kirin Ichiban Shibori at a low price
but I didn't buy it because I was going to Marukai and I thought it would be cheaper there
and when I got there, Marukai was $1 more expensive.
Damn, I should have just bought it
I'm so annoyed!

• 世間知らず
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 21:00
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Chinese people don't line up and cross the street
is a world famous story
google it and you'll find a lot of them
when you go to univa or something like that, they often get into fights.

• いつも
• 2022/11/02 (Wed) 21:44
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The lady who is entering sideways or something is Chinese.
Same in Japan with trains and buses, and in the US. You pass through a narrow chute gap and get in line at the front of the line.
In Japan, when there is a sale at a department store, it is always an old man with a big belly or an old man even if he doesn't have a belly
It's not nice to have that belly on your back. I am desperate to get it first.

• 通りすがりの名無し
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• 2022/11/03 (Thu) 16:20
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>58 I didn't know that you are Taiwanese. Thank you for telling me ！

I'm going to get burned for saying this, but if you call me naive because I don't
know that Chinese people don't line up, which is right out of the search, then I can remain naive. It's not a
thought because I'm Chinese to begin with. Just because the majority of Chinese are like that doesn't mean that all mainland Chinese are
like that, and I don't think it's right to assume that all Chinese are like that.

• アンチ
• 2022/11/03 (Thu) 16:32
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It's true that in America, people who criticize others are seen as losers, so it seems that people who don't bad mouth or criticize others are high class ？.

• 批判
• 2022/11/03 (Thu) 17:00
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It is unpleasant for both the person who says bad things about others and the person who hears them. But it is also a bad word to tell someone close to you that you should be careful ？
For example, you should not lend money to someone who is loose with money, or is loose with time, or asks you to do something immediately ？....

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/04 (Fri) 07:10
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A person's bad words can go around and reach him or her.

• ゲゲゲ
• 2022/11/04 (Fri) 10:20
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The candidates for mayor of Los Angeles this time
and all the other people running for office are talking bad about the other candidate
all the time, even in TV commercials.

• いいことなし
• 2022/11/04 (Fri) 10:37
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Negativity calls for negativity.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/04 (Fri) 16:37
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All the people running for office keep bad-mouthing the other candidate on their TV commercials.

It would be nice if I could get more votes for myself by bad-mouthing my opponent on TV commercials.

• 家賃インフレ
• 2022/11/26 (Sat) 08:10
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I received a notice yesterday that I will be raising my rent starting next January.
They have raised ＄ 150 every year recently, is this normal ？
How about those who are renting ？?

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/26 (Sat) 08:27
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＄ How much will I pay starting next January if the price increases by 150?

• 使ってます
• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 05:41
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Is it an apartment ？ or a house ？ what area ？ but the laws are different. The house I rent does not fall under the law that says I can only raise the rent up to 10% per year, so the landlord can raise it as much as he wants. But he is a conscientious person, so he does it by giving me 10% every 5 years.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 06:41
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I thought rent increases occur at the time of a new renewal.

For example, I don't understand why you sign up for a 2 year contract and the price goes up the following year.

• レントコントロール
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• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 07:03
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The laws vary depending on the city you live in. The City of Los Angeles has rent control, so rent usually increases only 3-4% per year.

However, the Rent Stabilization Ordinance prohibits rent hikes until January 2024 for all applicable units.
https://housing.lacity.org/residents/rso-overview

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 08:44
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It states that rent increases are prohibited until January 2024. Even if
the contract is over and you want to sign a new contract, there is no problem.

• 家賃インフレ
• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 09:09
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San Pedro. Crying
this year ＄ 1300 will be ＄ 1450 and next year ＄ 1600.
Does San Pedro have rent control ？
I read that with inflation you can raise that rate every year...

• はい
• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 10:07
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San Pedro has rent control.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/27 (Sun) 11:05
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San Pedro may have rent control but
you would have to live in a rent controlled building to be eligible.

79 Is the contract signed for 1 year and 12 months?

• 家賃インフレ
• 2022/11/28 (Mon) 22:53
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If it was built after 1979, doesn't it fall under rent control ？?

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/11/29 (Tue) 07:15
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I don't know the details, but
if you are still living in the same building
since 1979 under Rent Control, you would be eligible.

If you move out of a place that is subject to Rent Control,
the room would be out of Rent Control and
the landlord would set the regular rent.