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• 2022/11/15 20:08

Gone again ？

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#4473

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• 2026/10/07 (Wed) 09:44
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生徒さんの事が心配。ただただ善意の人で、次のレッスンにはレストランに行く事を提案してくれたり( 食事中も授業料が発生するという事。) 私がレッスンと食事は別と言ったら、彼女は後から酷く怒った。普通の感覚だったら、レストランでご馳走してもらってその上授業料も払わせるだなんてあり得ない。
彼持ちでイベントとかに連れて行ってくれようとして、彼の友人と私たち二人の分のチケットも取ってくれると言っていた。彼女はとても甘え上手、お願い上手。
まだ若く、勉強熱心で、日本大好きな彼が傷つくような事にならなければいいけど、どうしたらいいかわからない。

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#4474

• ずっと
• 2026/10/07 (Wed) 09:47
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昔VOGAという雑誌がLAで発行されていた。その配達員が、毎回大量の雑誌を箱ごと何箱も廃棄していた。雑誌を作っていた人たちは全てを注ぐほど一所懸命だったはず。毎回そんな大量に廃棄されていただなんて想像だにしなかっただろう。
私が拾って、何軒かの日系マーケットの前に置けばよかったのだろうけど、毎回大きなダンプスターの中に捨てられていて拾えなかった。VOGAに連絡して言うのも告げ口みたいになってしまうと思って出来なかった。
早くに廃刊になってしまって、あの時何とか出来なかったんだろうかと今でも苦しく思い出してしまう。人が必死に頑張って築いた物を平気で台無しに出来る人たちがいる。

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#4475

• すた丼
• 2026/10/07 (Wed) 09:49
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数年前、トーランスのすた丼屋で働いていた独身男性が病気で亡くなった。
その時以来、その男性が住んでいた家の管理人が彼のNissan車に乗り、仕事も止めて、すた丼屋の男性の貯金で羽振り良く暮らしているとその家の同居人が言っている。
日本から来た遺族の方たちはそれを知らず、ただ感謝して帰って行った、と。
もちろん人伝の話なんてデマも多いし、人の言う事をそのまま鵜呑みにするほどアホじゃないけれど、ご遺族の連絡先をご存知の方、( 葬儀はFukui mortuaryかKubotaだったか忘れた) とにかく彼が車と貯金を持っていた事は伝えて欲しいとの事です。

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#4477

• タゲられ
• 2026/10/07 (Wed) 17:03
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完全無視しているのに、まだ毎日テキストしてくる。
カウントダウン3️⃣って、まるでホラー。
昨日キャンディーズの歌がどうこう書いてきて、相変わらず謝罪要求してきてるけど、私がキャンディーズの事で何をした？
二ヶ月ちょっと前、あなたに夢中を歌った時、踊らないと！って言われた。踊らなかった事で謝罪要求してきてるの？訳わからない。(ちなみに、あなたに夢中のピンク服ランちゃんは神がかり的に可愛い)

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#4478

• My side of the story
• 2026/10/07 (Wed) 17:27
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今日水曜日。毎週水曜日ダークトライアド女がわざわざバスで往復3時間以上かけて大勢いる場にShe is crazyと騒ぎに行き、他の日本人二人も一緒に言っているそうなので、実際の事情を書く。

まず一人は、有り余る性欲をいつも持て余している80過ぎの男性。いつも女性に関係を迫り、口癖は、銀行に一億ある、死んだら全部あげる、面倒みて、と言う。私と親友は、お金なんかいらないけど面倒はみるよ、ご飯も作ってあげる、と話していた。あと、一億あるって人に言わない方がいいよ、悪い女が寄って来るよ、お金は娘さんにあげなよって何度も言ってたのだけれど、娘とは全く一緒に暮らしてないし、日本人じゃないし肌も黒いから可愛いと思えない、と。私と親友は、そんな事言ってたって、お金も家も全部娘さんにいくよねーって話してた。そんなの関係なく、寂しい寂しい言ってる老人だから私たち二人でご飯作ってあげたりしようねって話してた。
案の定38歳(当時)の日本人女性にタゲられて、さんざん振り回されるようになってしまった。幾らお金や物を持って行っても、彼女は底なしに要求し続ける。スタバでコーヒー買って来て、煙草買って来て、CVSに$60持って来て、aloのスニーカー買って、トレーナー買って、スウェット買って、一品$200から$300するような物を毎週買わされていた。私と親友は、彼女は全部現金化してるね、と話し、何人もの男に同じ物買わせて、一つ以外は現金化してるって事に気付いてた。
本人も、あいつの携帯は男の番号がたくさんある、みんな客か、などと話していた。車の中での事が済むと、はいチェック、と手を出される、と。ウェイトレスのバイト先のレストランで肉を盗んでいたのがばれて$3000払わないといけない、助けて、とか。
30代の魅力的な女性が80の爺に本気になると思う？と聞いても、いやーあいつ、私には◯◯ちゃんしかいないっていつも言ってくるんだよ、と。
私の親友の意見は、本人楽しんでるんだからいいんじゃない？
私も、確かに。彼女には月$1000まで、とか決めて楽しむ分にはいいかもね、って返事した。
でも彼女はマキャベリスト。80の爺を振り回して、不安にさせて、出来るだけお金を引き出そうとする。その度に私に、助けて、死にそう、一緒にいて、などとテキストしてきて、しょっちゅう何時間も何時間も、半日以上もその爺の運転する車に一緒にいなければならなくなった。
私が一緒にいないと、彼女のいるLAに行ってしまいそうになる。お金を渡さないと、頼まれている物を買わないと怒る、と。普段女性を物のように見ている男が、マキャベリスト女からは逆に手の平で転がされ、苦しんでいた。
その当時わたし自身とても苦しい時で、正直老人の色事に何十時間も付き合っている場合ではなかったのだけれど、死にそう、助けて、といつもテキストしてきて、放っておけなかった。
はっきり言ってその爺の車にいる半日以上や一日中は地獄のようだった。何度も何度も関係を迫ってきて、そしたら◯◯のところになんか行かない、と言って。
私が断る度に、あーあ！いい事ねーなー！と強い口調で言う。この爺の強い溜息は不機嫌ハラスメント。不満やイライラを誇示して女性をコントロールしようとする。そして相手を呆れた対象として扱って、自分の方が立場が上であると暗に示し、言う事を聞かせようとしている。
女性を物のように扱い、あいつはブス！すごいブス！と頻繁に言い、私の友人の事もそう言ったから私は怒った。
頬にキスするよう言ってきて、断ったら酷く不機嫌になり、それぐらいみんなするのよー！と言っていた。爺のお金に群がる女性たちはそうかもしれないけれど、私はそんな事しない。
最終的に、預けてた荷物を取りに来いよ！と皆の前で私を怒鳴りつけた。
女が断り続けると、それが男から女への憎しみに変わる事がある。
皆に私の事を、She is crazy!!と頭の横で人差し指を回して言うようになった。

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• mj
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• 2026/08/30 16:54

I currently have a family law case regarding child custody pending outside of California and am looking for someone who can provide urgent consultation ・ and assistance.

I am looking for an attorney who can consult ・ and communicate with me in Japanese.

If you know of any attorneys, legal aid organizations, or legal assistance programs for low-income individuals who have experience with custody issues and interstate jurisdiction matters and can handle this at the lowest possible cost, I would greatly appreciate any information you can provide.

As time is of the essence, if you know of anyone who can provide a consultation soon or any support organizations, I would greatly appreciate any information you can provide.

Thank you in advance.

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• Homie
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• 2026/04/02 19:54

I used to look forward to watching Fuji Television's Japanese-language newscasts in the morning, but the broadcast has come to an end. As I get older, Japanese TV is pleasant to my ears, regardless of the quality of the content. If anyone knows of a way to watch Japanese language news in the U.S., please let me know!

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• Moja2
• 2026/04/21 (Tue) 19:51
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The University of Tsukuba has a VPN that you can use for free. It is a little tricky to connect, but I always use it to watch TVer.

https://www.vpngate.net/ja/howto_openvpn.aspx

I use SoftEther VPN Client.

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• VPNのこと
• 2026/04/22 (Wed) 21:23
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Thank you Moja2😊

Is this something I have to do every time ？ I don't understand it at a glance and I think I will fail before I start💦

I'm grateful that it is free to use and I will try my best but what you wrote seems a bit difficult😅😅 I'll try my best, but what it says seems a bit difficult 😅.

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• Moja2
• 2026/04/23 (Thu) 19:46
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In my case, I only connect to a VPN when I want to watch TVer or Japanese Amapura, and disconnect it when I'm done.
The trick is to choose a VPN from the list that has a speed of 100Mbps or more, and to choose a VPN that does not have "public" at the beginning. Also, sometimes the connection is lost in the middle, so you have to reconnect to another VPN. Well, anyway, it's free, so I'm willing to overlook a few inconveniences.

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• ブルー
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• 2026/05/27 (Wed) 20:05
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I thought a company called Sankaku connection was doing this.

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#11

• Nika
• 2026/06/04 (Thu) 16:43
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I want to watch Japanese TV programs, but recently I can't watch the free ones, so I switched to Jme, but I can't watch most of the variety shows.
What kind of sites do you subscribe to ？ Are you able to watch variety shows ？ Please let me know.

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• Akasuri
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• 2026/01/30 16:06

Do you know of any spas in OC with red scrubbing ？?

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• 2026/04/26 (Sun) 22:10
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Nah, you don't ！.

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• nori
• 2026/05/11 (Mon) 03:24
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I only use ， Gade na,, soul sauna,
male, but,

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• Maru
• 2026/05/27 (Wed) 19:57
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Torrance but Riviera Spa is good.

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• るび
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• 2026/05/19 13:04

I am moving from Silicon Valley to Irvine in late July and am wondering how to transport tropical fish.
I can get them to the point where I can pack them and put them in styrofoam, but I can't drive.
It seems to take 6 ～ 7 hours by car.
If anyone knows of a long-distance taxi-like service, please let us know.
I am also thinking of putting a call out on bibinavi.
Thank you in advance.

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• 苗
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• 2026/04/26 22:24

I have some seedlings that sprouted quite well after I sowed seeds, anyone want them ？?

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• べがす
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• 2025/10/27 22:29

I am going to Las Vegas for the first time in about 10 years.

I'm freaking out that parking is now charged. I used to buy the 24 hour buffet all-you-can-eat and eat all the seafood etc. that I love. ？

I'm thinking about what to do this time because I'm taking my kids and I hope they can enjoy it, but I feel like I can't go anywhere if parking costs ＄ 20 or so every time.

I would like to go to Coca-Cola, M&M and other stores that are fun to look at, as well as the interior of each hotel, the fountains and the pirate show. I am worried.

I would like to have fun with my kids and family, no drinking or gambling.

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• べがす
• 2025/11/01 (Sat) 22:30
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Thank you, I will try to get the hotel to open in the next couple of weeks. The hotel is a resort a little ways off the strip. I still think it's going to cost a parking lot, I'm afraid 🥲

I'll check out some good restaurants. Let me know if you have any recommendations.

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• ベガスマン
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• 2025/11/02 (Sun) 21:00
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Vegas Man
Circus Circus is parking free.

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• べがす
• 2025/11/05 (Wed) 02:37
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Mr. Vegasman ！ Thank you 😊

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• 2026/04/18 (Sat) 15:33
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If you make a MGM reward credit card (no annual fee), parking is free at MGM group hotels.

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• シュワちゃん
• 2026/04/19 (Sun) 09:47
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If you are staying in a remote hotel, Uber is the only way to get to the strip and back. Don't take a cab, you will get ripped off
Once you get to the strip, there is a bus that runs around the clock and you can take it to remote downtown areas.

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• サリー
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• 2025/11/29 18:59

I am in my 50's and I want to get rid of spots on my face
but I don't know which procedure is best.
If possible, I would like to know
if there are any salons you would recommend.
Thank you very much.
***I would like to have OC if possible.

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• pasadena
• 2025/12/05 (Fri) 11:03
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If you are planning to return to Japan, it would be better to do it then. The price will be much cheaper.

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• サリー
• 2025/12/05 (Fri) 17:42
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Thank you for the information.
I would like to go to counseling, but
I have no idea where to go.

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• L
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• 2026/03/25 (Wed) 12:37
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Vitamin c or TAZAROTENE retinol for spots has been effective in my opinion ！.

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• N
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• 2026/04/04 (Sat) 17:40
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I did the ZO skin therapeutic course to remove spots.
You purchase the products from the medical spa in Lake Forest below and use the products after washing your face in the morning and at night for about 3 months, I think. Personally, I thought it was fine even if I didn't use ZO Skin's face wash. The 1cm sized spots on my cheeks are gone, and the spots on my temples have rebounded and appeared, but I am happy with the results because they are invisible with regular foundation instead of concealer.

https://www.nursegailaesthetics.com/ZO_Skin_Health.html

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• Billiardusa
• 2026/04/13 (Mon) 07:52
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Talk to Kumi from Celibre in Torrance
https://www.instagram.com/celibre.jp?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Thanks for all your help recently!

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• Yamaki9864
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• 2026/02/05 10:36

My boss is looking for a Hina doll set or his granddaughter. I have been looking to buy from Kyugetsu but I am unsure if we will get the shipment on time for the season this year. Do you know if shipment is slower than usual from Japan?
We have been looking for a 5 tier display set of any kind, in good condition. Would love to know of a place that sells dolls in America or a family who is willing to offer a price. Please message me!

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• きんちゃん
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• 2026/04/03 20:26

I love kumquat and want to grow it, but please tell me what to do.

My mother in law has a great kumquat tree, but the landlord says it is self-sown and he has no knowledge of it.

She wants me to come and get it, but my house is too far away and I can't get there easily.

But I like kumquat so much that I buy it at the supermarket.

I looked up the meaning of the word "kumquat", but I didn't know what it means.

I heard it takes about 5-10 years from seed, so I can't wait 🥹

I wonder if I should cut the tree down and plant it in the ground ？ The owner doesn't eat kumquat but the tree is full of fruit so the birds will probably damage it a lot. So he thinks that he should take the whole tree with him.

I think I am the only one eating them. I can't move the tree, but if I cut off a branch or something and get some part of it, can I grow it in my house?

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• サンシャイン
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• 2026/04/04 (Sat) 13:02
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Why not try taking up a tree with permission? Even if you are successful, it will take 3 to 5 years for the tree to bear fruit, but it will be a pleasure to watch the plant grow.

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• ああ
• 2026/04/04 (Sat) 16:28
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Usually with trees like that, you cut off the small branches in the off-season and
grow them in pots and fertilize them at first. When they get big enough, you move them to land. I think that's how it works.
I did it with grapes, and they were doing well, but the gardeners threw them away （ tears ）
I think it still takes a few years for them to bear fruit.

I think it would be faster to buy them from some nursery ？.

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• きんちゃん
• 2026/04/04 (Sat) 22:01
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Thank you ！ It takes that long 🥲

For now, I think it would be better to buy one pot of fruit from Nursery, grow and eat it, and enjoy growing the branches I get from that house.

I wonder if I should cut the branches around there ？ Do you have any advice ？

Also, I don't think I have ever come across a Nursery that sells Kumquat in the past ？
The last time I saw a potted kumquat plant was about 10 years ago at a swap meet, sold by an Asian guy. I remember regretting it for a while because even then I was traveling far from home and didn't buy it.

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• サンシャイン
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• 2026/04/05 (Sun) 00:29
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Some types of citrus are banned from sale. I don't know if you can get them because they are regulated to prevent disease and I saw on the news that a vendor in San Diego sued the governor of the state by the million as he had to get rid of his seedlings.
There are plenty of YouTubers who can find you trees to take, but they are more likely to be successful than cuttings.

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• メリー子
• 2026/04/05 (Sun) 10:56
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I planted this tree 30 years ago and at first it produced a kumquat, but since the second year it has produced a lemon that is 15 cm long. I don't want the lemons, I want them to become kumquat, but only lemons. It is a strange tree.

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